Mindy Jo Rigel describes how life coaching supports children on the autism spectrum
Can Life Coaching support children on the autism spectrum? When I received my youngest son’s autism diagnosis two years ago, I have to admit there was a ping of relief: I finally had some direction. When he was six months old, he produced high-pitched squeals almost deafening to the human ear. At four he would get so frustrated when coloring outside of the lines, he would break crayons and scream endlessly. I tried hard to make a connection with my child only to fail again …and again. It was clear professional support was necessary for his growth and development, but the question was who?
Autism Spectrum Mental Health Challenges
I was in uncharted territory, and I learned there was a shortage of mental health professionals who treated children. After being on a waiting list for months, my son was assigned to a counselor. Within one month that same counselor moved to a different position in the facility, and my son was introduced to a new counselor. Roughly six months later, that particular counselor left for a position elsewhere, leaving my son without a counselor again. The bright side of that ‘counseling revolving door’ was the facility’s contracted, superb psychiatrist who is still treating him today.
Life Coaching Alternative
After yet another counselor left the same facility only a few months later, it was evident an alternative was needed. There were still few mental healthcare options in our local area and traveling long distances presented numerous challenges. In addition, my son had difficulty making connections with others and building relationships; and therefore, he needed a consistent support system. He needed a life coaching alternative, and we were fortunate enough to find the perfect fit.
My son’s certified life coach, Richard Quisenberry, is a former principal, athletic coach, children’s book author, motivational speaker, and a father. He has also worked with other children on the autism spectrum. This phenomenal man, whom my son continues to meet with today, has made incredible strides with him. He looks forward to meeting with Mr. Quisenberry on a regular basis, and even during COVID-19, their sessions are scheduled through virtual meetings via the laptop and/or cell phone.
Life Changing Results
One of the major differences in my son’s behavior is the progress he has made while working with Mr. Quisenberry. Previously it proved challenging when taking him out in public places, such as miniature golf or bowling. He would become frustrated if he started to lose or wasn’t performing well. Any intended memory-making outings just seemed to make him miserable, whereas now we enjoy our time together – momma & son style! Life changing does not begin to capture how amazing the experience has been for our family. My son’s work with his life coach inspired me to attain my own life coach certification. The heart of the matter is that life coaching can bring life changing results to anyone, and YES life coaching can support children on the autism spectrum.